
Welcome!
Present in the Pain is the apostolate ministry of Eileen Tully, a Catholic convert offering healing retreats and helpful resources for grieving mothers who have experienced the death of a child from pregnancy through adulthood.
“Eileen Tully shares her heart and wisdom with the gentle but powerful authority of one who has been with Jesus at the foot of the Cross.”
Sonja Corbitt, Catholic Evangelista
Learn more about Eileen here.
My husband and I are working together to offer our first retreat for couples!

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Online Self-guided Retreat

Now with a new lower price!
“I learned so much more how to grieve with an eternal perspective thanks to this wonderful retreat.”
-Retreat Participant
Click the photo to learn about this self-guided online retreat for grieving mothers.
Events & Speaking Information

Eileen has a passion for speaking to others about trusting God in times of suffering.
Click the microphone for information about upcoming events and to learn more about having Eileen come speak to your group. Here you can also find information and a sample itinerary for hosting a retreat in your parish.
In the Raw – A Weekly Series of Posts from Early in Grief
The writing may seem choppy and rambling, but the pain is raw and real. Writing helped me to process my grief in the early days, and I am sharing these posts to help you feel understood in your experiences. I’ve been there. I understand. You can join me here, in the raw.
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